CHANGE

 

MAKE A CHANGE, NOT FOR OTHERS, BUT FOR YOURSELF.

years ago I used to find myself in situations where if something did not work out for me or where I didn’t fit I used to believe that no matter what, I need to shape myself according to the situation. little did I know that the real courage was going opposite to what you think is not good enough for you or what you think doesn’t fit your personality. little did I know that adjusting to what you think doesn’t needs to be adjusted was injustice to yourself and nothing else.

Ralph Waldo Emerson puts it best:

‘To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment’

when you take a step towards being a positive change that too for yourself only, you also tend to get a lot of negativity alongside a lot of positivity, there is half of the world spitting negativity on seeing you grow beautifully and then there’s half other clapping cheerfully on seeing you grow now you gotta choose who you want to focus on. Also when you have this feeling within yourself that the change is worth having for, you automatically tend to fall on deaf ears on what the people might think of you and of-course not everyone will be happy for your change, because your change will remind them that they're not changing and that should be completely okay for you.