22 THINGS I LEARNED IN 22 YEARS.

 Learning is a life long process, and the purpose of jotting these very simple yet full of meaning points down is not to act brave behind the keyboard but just to make myself clear that the lessons learnt today should reflect in my personality tomorrow and not just in my words.

1. Nothing in your life should be your life, it just should be a part of your life.

2. Things only get better when you get better.

3. Never lose hope because 'paharon se nikalne wali nehron ne ajj tak raaste mein kisi se nahi pucha samandar kitni door hei'

4. Just few months of hard-core focus and alignment can put you five years ahead in life, never underestimate the power of consistency and desire. 

5. Give 80% to relations, keep the rest to yourself so that you have something to fall back on when people depart from your life.

6. Your parents and siblings are the only beings who would actually prove that they are a comfort zone, a safe spot.

7. Depression amongst youth is real, please don't disregard people by saying 'isey abhi se kis baat ka dukh hei' some people could go through the biggest traumas ad not be depressed whereas another person could be struggling with a simple situation that might not be a big deal for you.

8. Learn to say no in certain situations. 

9. You were not sent in this world to be everything to everyone. 

10. Dwelling in past will do no good to you just remember once a wise man said 'hona hi tha jo hua hei'.

11. You might not listen to yourself but listen to the advice that you give others.

12. Know the value of a day where your heart is fully satisfied, no more a slave but a proud owner of your own thoughts and opinions. 

13. Communication always wins. Sit back and talk about little things that's when you would find the courage to talk about the big things in life.

14. The phrase 'go with the flow' doesn't always help, go through things thoroughly and then make a move.

15. Not everything needs a reaction, learn to sit back and observe.

16. Actions aren't everything, sometimes it just takes few words to calm you down or devastate you down.

17. Anything that costs your peace is too expensive.

18. Trust your intuition,  I repeat trust your intuition, you and your thoughts matter and they can also be correct sometimes.

19. Little gestures of great importance,  matter alot.

20. Nobody can respect you and your matters/secrets the way you do so think before you open up to someone. Respect yourself prior to making others respect you.

21. Twenties are the selfish years, it's a decade to explore, understand and build yourself. 

22. Run back to Allah  because how many deaths will it take to remind us that its already late.